About Me

I'm an Orthodox Christian, and I strive to follow Christ day by day. I'm blessed to be married to Deacon Steve. We have four wonderful kids! I love to create comics, art, sew, write and read. :)

Thursday, July 29, 2010

A little update now and then never hurt, eh?

My big 4-year old, working hard on her letters


Well, well, well, it's been quiet around here lately, hasn't it?

Seems I have plenty of time to keep up with all of the blogs on my rss feed, and YET, each time I think of updating my own blog, I think of a million other things I could/ should be doing. Like now? I should be assembling baby announcements to be mailed tomorrow, and making rice pudding. Priorities, priorities; I know.

In case you were wondering, that matryoshka doll pictured in the previous post was a gift from a friend. It's actually an adorable set of measuring cups!

Several of the inhabitants of this home are fighting a bug. Job's been bitten the hardest, with V. running second. S. has been overtaken with a sensational irritability that seems more related with her "being two" than any conspicuous illness. Boy, does she know how to BELLOW. That's the only way I can describe her way of crying: BELLOWING. Deep, low, gutsy BELLOWS that probably echo throughout our neighborhood. If you know S. in real life, you'd probably never guess she could throw such a tantrum, but don't let that cute, big-eyed sweetness fool you. As I always say, never trust the shy ones-- they're always the craziest! :D hehe.

And, after the cleaning/ organizing tirade earlier this month, I've enjoyed the order, yet have experienced a bit of relapse. Oh well. Three steps forward, two steps back. That seems to be the rule of thumb in my life. I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, so I'm only now learning how to appreciate ANY improvement instead of griping about my inability to succeed, succeed, succeed, in impressive leaps and bounds. I once came across a saying about how Satan laughs at the person who takes a hatchet and plans to chop down the whole forest in a day, yet trembles at the person who is prepared to work slowly, steadfastly, carefully over a long period of time.

Sicknesses aside, everyone in the family is doing fairly well. Little J. is SUCH a sweet and mellow boy. He is so very loved! And, he is a chunk! We're looking forward to his baptism next month. Being a mom of three is a lot of hard work, even with a super-mellow baby. Only now am I starting to wonder how moms of more than three do it. Seriously. I look at my three, and I think: some moms have double this, or triple! Incredible. Hats off! Then again, I've also heard that "once you have three, anything beyond isn't much different." Hahaha :)

Lastly, our dear cat Midnight is no longer with us. She was last seen about 2 weeks before J. was born (so, early May). It's very sad. We don't know where she is; if she got "adopted" by another family in the neighborhood, or if she died somehow. We miss her a lot, especially now that we realize she probably isn't coming back at all. Poor Midi. :(

I don't mean to leave on a Debbie Downer note, especially since things really are going well for us, all things considered. Thanks be to God, for all things! I hope you are well.

5 comments:

elizabeth said...

sorry to hear about the loss of your cat :(

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hope the sicknesses go away soon!

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yep, it is slow and steady the wins the race... I struggle with this one too!

Mimi said...

I'm sorry to hear about Midnight.
Love the photo, and I can see the bellowing!
Hugs to you!

Iconography Girl said...

I'd like to think that Kitty-M was adopted by some college folk who took it home for summer vacation :)

I always believe the "once you have three what is one more?" thing, too, until we just had #4. I am seriously doubting that conventional wisdom now! I guess it is always easier in hindsight, right? Like right now I don't remember having to hold the others ALL THE TIME, but I probably did when they were newborns and have forgotten.

HURRAH! for being one 'net' step further ahead now than you were a couple months ago!

And I don't believe for a second that sweet little S. would ever bellow! ;)

Momma Bug said...

So glad you are managing friend!

It'll get easier. And I think you're right about three being a hard one, but I will confess that 6 has been a very full plate for me. I think any number of tiny ones is a handful and a half! One day at a time and work on chopping down that forest steadily - you've got it:-)

Love you,
-me

Michelle M. said...

I hope your are all feeling better by now.

I recently saw those measuring cups in a magazine and I want them :) They are adorable!

I think that things can only get easier when you have more kids. I found the transition from two to three the easiest, but there are definitely aspects of my daily life that are much harder (like grocery shopping!). But when you have more children, they play with each other and help out more. I love it!